Moving Through Fear

From Agape Issue 3: Pursuing Justice 

2 Timothy: 17

For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.

Do you ever get scared to stand up for yourself or others? It is completely natural to feel fear, especially in situations where there is conflict or risk of being criticized or yelled at. The good thing is, we are blessed with a lot of guidance from the Bible that helps us feel more supported and capable. 

In the previous issue of Agape, Emi talked a lot about how to identify and understand our different emotions. She let us know that “fear protects us from dangerous things, people, or situations,” and it can come in the form of anxiety, insecurity, and other feelings.

As a kid, I was often scared to stand up for myself and others. I would think, “What if saying something to this bully only makes them make fun of me more?” or “What if I make things worse for this other person?” 

In this scripture verse from 2 Timothy, we are urged to move past fear in favor of things we value, like love and justice. Sometimes, we have to listen to our love for others and our compassion for those suffering more than we listen to our fears. Stop and ask, “Is this an act of love or is it a response to fear?”

This verse has inspired me to also ask myself questions like, “What if standing up for this person now will prevent things from escalating and causing more harm in the future?” or “What if this person really needs someone to show they care right now?” 

Sticking up for others often reminds people that they matter and that the harm they are experiencing is not okay–it’s a courageous act of love that helps make someone else’s world a more loving place.

Next time you feel scared in a conflict, if it’s safe, think about how you can use love to face conflict and pursue justice instead of letting your fear take over!